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    May 30

    如果有一天

    如果你在一個平凡的家庭長大
    如果你的父母還健在
    不管你有沒有和他們同住

     

    如果有一天,你發現媽媽的廚房不再像以前那麼乾淨
    如果有一天,你發現家中的碗筷好像沒洗乾淨
    如果有一天,你發現母親的鍋子不再雪亮
    如果有一天,你發現父親的花草樹木已漸荒廢
    如果有一天,你發現家中的地板衣櫃經常沾滿灰塵
    如果有一天,你發現母親煮的菜太鹹太難吃
    如果有一天,你發現父母經常忘記關瓦斯


    如果有一天,你發現老父老母的一些習慣不再是習慣時,

    就像他們不再想要天天洗澡時
    如果有一天,你發現父母不再愛吃青脆的蔬果
    如果有一天,你發現父母愛吃煮得爛爛的菜
    如果有一天,你發現父母喜歡吃稀飯
    如果有一天,你發現他們過馬路行動反應都慢了
    如果有一天,你發現在吃飯時間他們老是咳個不停

     

    千萬別誤以為他們感冒或著涼,(那是吞嚥神經老化的現象)
    如果有一天,你發覺他們不再愛出門

     

    如果有這麼一天
    我要告訴你,你要警覺父母真的已經老了
    器官已經退化到需要別人照料了
    如果你不能照料,請你替他們找人照料
    並請你請你千萬千萬要常常探望
    不要讓他們覺得被遺棄了

     


    每個人都會老
    父母比我們先老
    我們要用角色互換的心情去照料他
    才會有耐心、才不會有怨言
    當父母不能料理自己的時候,為人子女要警覺,
    他們可能會大小便失禁、可能會很多事都做不好,
    如果房間有異味,可能他們自己也聞不到,
    請不要嫌他髒或嫌他臭,為人子女的只能幫他清理,
    並請維持他們的『自尊心』。


    當他們不再愛洗澡時,
    請抽空定期幫他們洗身體,
    因為縱使他們自己洗也可能洗不乾淨。
    當我們在享受食物的時候,
    請替他們準備一份大小適當、容易咀嚼的一小碗,
    因為他們不愛吃可能是牙齒咬不動了。
    從我們出生開始,
    餵奶換尿布、生病的不眠不休照料、
    教我們生活基本能力、供給讀書、吃喝玩樂和補習,
    關心和行動永遠都不停歇。


    如果有一天,
    他們真的動不了了,
    角色互換不也是應該的嗎?
    為人子女者要切記,
    看父母就是看自己的未來,
    孝順要及時。


    如果有一天,
    你像他們一樣老時,你希望怎麼過?
    現在的你,
    是在當單身寄生蟲、還是已婚雙料或多料寄生蟲?
    你留意過自己的父母嗎?

     

    樹欲靜而風不止、子欲養而親不在

    May 22

    June is coming...

    hahaa...so fast...
    time really passed so so fast....
    in another 11 days...it will be 2 June...
    in another 26 days...it will be 16 June...
    and in another 40 days...it will be 30 June...

    i think nobody will have this kind of experience...
    i will be registered as someone husband on 1st of June...
    then i will have my wedding reception in KL on the next day...
    and 2 weeks after tat, i will be heading to Bukit Mertajam...
    and 2 weeks after tat, i will be back to Batu Pahat...
    it seems like a busy month of schedule ahead...
    let's hope that i wouldn't be tired till death after next month...

    the worst thing is..i will still be having my training during the whole month...
    hahahaa...
    seems like i will have all my brain-cells dead...
    have to put everything insides my brain as soon as possible..
    somemore have to worry about all the other problems that might occur..
    well...i have to say...there's gonna be alot of things need to be handle...

    let's hope it will be a wonderful June!


    May 18

    how u get my number?!

    sometimes i really have to say..
    this is really a small small world...
    someone around you might be your friend's friends...
    or your friend's friend might know ur sister or anything...

    hahaa...
    just now i was browsing through all my old photos..
    the first album tat i put here is actually on Sep 2005!!
    fu-yoh...seems like a long long time ago...

    and think back what was i doing at tat time?!?
    still studying....
    and now...barely two years had passed...
    and i am going to be someone husband in 2 weeks time!!!
    hahahaa...amazing huh?!?

    well...the days are getting closer and closer..
    more and more stuff need to handle...
    i can seriously tell u...this is not an easy task at all!!!!
    be through so so so so many things...
    so so so many things to do in fact....
    when u come to it...then u will know...

    ei ei...the title is abt "how u get my number?!" lar...
    ok ok....when u r interested to know someone...wat would u do?
    obviously u would try to get his/her phone number...
    and trying to talk to her...and trying to know her slowly bits by bits right?
    but then how u going to get his/her number?
    and even if you got the number...u dare to call or not??

    IT'S PRIVACY!

    well...luckily someone invented sms in this world!
    :P
    i dun know abt all you guys, but i don't mind someone gives my number to someone else...
    but i am sure someone would mind...
    and i totally respect it...
    someone might feel tat, if you want my number...come ask from me....
    dun ask someone else to give you!
    right? and i fully agree on it!

    see this old photo...tat's how i got your number lar!!
    i didn't ask from anyone else...:P